6 Essential Tips for Helping Children in Care With Going Back to School

Learn six key tips to help children in care transition back to school smoothly. From understanding trauma to setting routines, these strategies are designed to support their well-being and ease the process. Perfect for parents, teachers, and caregivers.

Transitioning children in care back to or starting a new school can be a challenging process that requires careful planning and support. Below are our top tips for helping these children navigate the transition smoothly and with confidence.

1. Understand the Impact of Trauma on Behaviour and Learning

Children in care often have a history of trauma, which can significantly affect their ability to concentrate, remember, and process information. Additionally, trauma can impact their emotional regulation and behaviour. By understanding these challenges, caregivers and educators can create a more supportive learning environment that accommodates the child's unique needs.

2. Prepare Them for the School Environment

Preparation is key to helping children in care manage the anxiety and fear that often accompany returning to or starting a new school. Visual preparation can be particularly effective:

  • Show them photos: Introduce them to the school environment by showing pictures of their new classroom, teacher, and the school building.
  • Explain transportation: Discuss how they will get to school, whether by bus or car, and familiarise them with the route.
  • Discuss routines: Talk about what a typical school day will look like, including start times, break times, lunch routines, and what to expect at home time.

These steps help establish a sense of security and predictability, making the transition less daunting.

3. Establish a Clear and Consistent Routine

Children in care often experience instability and unpredictability in their lives. By establishing a clear and consistent daily routine, you help them feel safe and secure. Consistent routines provide a reliable structure that can reduce anxiety and help them adapt more easily to their new school environment.

Children in care may experience heightened emotions such as anxiety, fear, or reluctance when returning or starting a new school. Preparing them with routines and visual aids helps establish security and awareness of what to expect.

4. Meet with the Child's Teacher

Communication with the school is crucial. Arrange a meeting with the child's teacher to discuss the child's abilities, the impact of trauma on their learning, and to set realistic expectations around homework and classroom behaviour. Establishing an ongoing communication plan ensures that both you and the teacher are on the same page and can work together to support the child's well-being.

5. Prioritise Well-Being Over Minor Mishaps

It's common for children in care to lose their belongings or struggle with punctuality. Rather than focusing on minor issues like lost pens or occasional lateness, it's essential to prioritise their overall well-being. Understanding that these small mishaps are not as significant as the larger emotional and psychological challenges they may be facing can help in creating a more compassionate environment.

6. Set Realistic and Compassionate Expectations

Children in care often deal with trauma, instability, and emotional stress, which can make meeting high expectations difficult. Setting realistic and compassionate expectations helps alleviate additional pressure and anxiety. This approach encourages them to do their best without the fear of failure or feelings of inadequacy.

These tips are essential for anyone involved in the care and education of children, particularly those in care. If you found this information helpful, please share it with parents, teachers, and others who might benefit from these insights. Together, we can support children in care through these challenging transitions and help them thrive in their new environments.

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Written by:
Eithne LarkinEithne Larkin
September 2, 2024
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