Celebrating Love in All Its Forms This St Valentine's Day

Love comes in many forms – and every child deserves to feel valued and supported. This Valentine’s Day, let’s celebrate the many ways love shapes the lives of children in care, from the kindness of foster carers to the warmth of a forever family.

Love is not just about romance. It’s about kindness, care, and providing a sense of security. For children in foster care, love means having someone who listens to them, encourages them, and makes them feel valued.

Love is found in the small moments – a bedtime story, a warm meal, a reassuring hug. These moments shape a child’s sense of belonging and self-worth.

The Love of Birth Family

The love for a child in care from their birth family always remains. This bond provides a sense of identity and belonging, offering emotional stability and continuity amidst the uncertainties of their circumstances.

On this special day, acknowledging and honouring the love of birth families can make a profound difference in the lives of children in care, reinforcing the importance of maintaining these vital connections.

The love from birth family members can be a source of comfort and strength, helping children navigate the challenges of being in care.  It reminds them that they are cherished and valued, fostering resilience and hope.

On this special day, acknowledging and honouring the love of birth families can make a profound difference in the lives of children in care, reinforcing the importance of maintaining these vital connections.

The Love of a Foster Carer

The love of a foster carer is unique and powerful. It is the love that opens hearts and homes to children in need, providing them with stability, safety, and a sense of belonging. Foster carers offer unconditional support, nurturing, and guidance, helping children heal and grow. This love is patient, resilient, and transformative.

The Love of a Community

Children in care benefit immensely from the love and support of their community. This includes teachers, social workers, neighbours, and friends who come together to create a network of care. Community love is about showing up, offering encouragement, and being a consistent presence in a child's life. It reminds children that they are valued and supported by many.

The Love of Siblings and Peers

For children in care, the love of siblings and peers can be a source of comfort and companionship. Sibling bonds are often deep and enduring, providing a sense of continuity and shared experience. Friendships with peers offer opportunities for play, learning, and mutual support. These relationships help children feel connected and understood.

The Love of Self

Teaching children in care to love themselves is one of the greatest gifts we can give. Self-love is about fostering a positive self-image, building confidence, and encouraging children to recognise their own worth. It involves helping them develop healthy coping mechanisms and resilience. When children learn to love themselves, they are better equipped to navigate life's challenges.

The Love of a Forever Family

For many children in care, the ultimate expression of love is finding a family they can live with until they reach independence and beyond. This love is about commitment, permanence, and the promise of a lifelong bond. It provides children with the stability and security they need to thrive. The journey to finding a forever family can be long and challenging, but the love that awaits is immeasurable.

Every Child Deserves Love

On Valentine’s Day, while many celebrate love with flowers and chocolates, let’s also think about the children who need love the most. They may not ask for it, but they long for the safety, comfort, and reassurance that love brings.

If you’ve ever considered fostering, let this be the reminder you need – your love can change a life. It might be challenging, but it is one of the most rewarding and meaningful ways to show love.

Join Us in Spreading Love

This Valentine’s Day, consider opening your heart and home to a child in need. Love is limitless, and there is always room for more. If you’re ready to make a difference, contact Origins Foster Care today to learn more about fostering or apply to become a foster carer online if you know it's a journey you're ready to embark upon.

A portrait photo of Eithne Larkin, a team member at Origins Foster Care smiling and looking at the camera.
Written by:
Eithne LarkinEithne Larkin
February 13, 2025
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